How we treat people is the ultimate game changer. The not-so-secret key to success is that relationships matter—a lot! Our mission is to improve how people connect with each other. We are passionate about equipping people with the skills to cultivate connection because we believe one simple principle: Social skills are either setting the stage for your success or sabotaging your performance.
Learn to SPARK™ connection with our social skills training!


Dressing To The Tens
Do you know the Rule of Ten for getting dressed?
Have you ever gotten dressed, looked in the mirror, and wondered if your outfit is a bit uninspired? Do you ever feel overlooked because of what you wear? Or perhaps your outfits are very busy, and your clothes are the focus of people’s attention.
To create a polished and strategic look, our goal is to choose items that captivate people’s attention without overwhelming them. Do you know when to amp up your outfit to avoid looking boring and when to scale a busy look back to keep the focus on you—not your clothes? Learn a powerful trick called The Rule of 10 for getting dressed in this month’s “Do You Know?”

The Rule of 10 for Getting Dressed
In this fantastic (and free!) download, learn how to captivate people with what you wear!
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Our mission is to improve how people connect with each other. The not-so-secret key to success is that relationships matter—a lot! We do life and business with those we know, like, and trust. Creating better connection starts here: How Do You Want To Be Remembered?


SPARK™ is our science-backed method to cultivate connection. This powerful social skills model is based on our biologically hardwired need for connection. SPARK™ teaches you how to read the room and equips you with practical tools to connect with people in every situation you encounter.


Experience interactive training on modern social skills, including:




“The impact of training can last a day, a week or perhaps a year or more. Deborah’s training was different and focused on core human values that will last a lifetime. Our engagement with Deborah has left an indelible influence on our team. After our engagement, many have commented on how differently they now approach and engage in a social setting. Everyone feels more confident, more comfortable and above all, we sharpened our appreciation for civility and etiquette both in our personal and professional lives. I recommend Deborah’s services without reservation and I’m grateful we were able to avail ourselves of her exquisite knowledge and professionalism.”
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